Praying regularly is the best way to perfect and improve one’s spiritual life.
We learn to pray properly by praying less than properly.
The timing and frequency of our prayers will vary from person to person.
There is no ‘perfect rhythm’ of prayer.
Popular Christian piety suggests a daily prayer, also called a ‘quiet time’.
Some Christian traditions practice twice-daily prayers: ‘matins’ and ‘vespers’ (or morning and evening prayer); and many Buddhists do morning and evening chants.
Islam requires adherents to pray five times a day.
Cistercian monks pray seven times a day; outdone by Benedictine monks with eight prayer hours.
Praying once, twice, five, seven or eight times a day is great…
But I just don’t think that is enough, at least for me…
(A good Christian, Buddhist, Muslim or Monk will agree.)
I have to keep praying ‘unceasing’ prayers, processing life with God as it happens.
Recovering alcoholics who are working a programme from the guidance of the AA Big Book will heed the following advice for spiritually navigating a day:
“As we go through the day we pause, when agitated or doubtful, and ask for the right thought or action. We constantly remind ourselves we are no longer running the show, humbling saying to ourselves [in truth, it is a prayer that is said to God!] many times each day ‘Thy will be done.’ ” (AA Big Book, 87-88)
This practice, conceived by people famous for their struggles, best echoes the admonition of St Paul, who wrote that the will of God for us is to “Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances” (1 Thessalonians 5:16).
Because of the simultaneous fragility and dominance of my ego, I have to pray.
All the time.
